Current Quest and Alternative Opportunities, Interpretations, and Paths

One of my current quests is to be open for love and a loving relationship.  I am at a place where the current dating conditions are not very appealing.  I have had to revamp my “deal breakers” as far as what is acceptable and unacceptable to me in a relationship.  As I mature, some things just aren’t as important in a mate as they were 10 years ago.  Now I am more interested in values, how a man treats me, and if we have enough in common to actually consider making a life long commitment to one another.

In this quest, I know that there are some different paths I could take.  One of them is to move to another state.  My mother has been trying desperately to get me to move to where she is, but as much as she pushes, I resist.  I have thought lately, that I could be resisting my way out of finding the love of my life.  This is something I will be considering in the very near future.  A fresh start could open up a world of new opportunities and not just in the love department.

I have already begun dating men that I normally would not date.  Things have been going well and not so well at the same time.  But I can say for certain, these opportunities have made me aware of the things that I do not want when considering a mate.  I am grateful to them for that because otherwise I may not have known.  And on the other end of that, I have dated some men that I thought I would not be interested in and they have proven to be the best.  I have learned that things that I thought I would not tolerate or like, are actually not as bad as I had imagined.

I am in a state of reflection at the moment and I have been considering things very carefully with regards to my love life.  I know that there are some things that I have not considered.  They are there, and I will be choosing to look at them very soon.  Wish me luck!

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